Archive for October, 2004

MIDzz Are Right Here….!!!!

October 27, 2004 at 8:39 am · Filed under Old Blogger Life

Well This week is pretty cool n fun filled bcoz Abbu n Raheel bhai is here so I was also involved in some furthur new cooking experiments for Iftiyaari besides my exmas preparation.Yesterday I made a Pizza n Cake well Pizza was surperb but the only bad luck that happened with cake is that after making its batter ready I’ve put that in oven for half –n- baking n after did that I came out from there in my room start doing some accounts practices the most sinking course for me in this semester:(.During which I got so much involve actually solving a very critical balance sheet at that time n yeah after some while[about after approx 1 hr] I smelled something is burning which was nothing but my lovely cake :( well at that Ammi was also not at home to make me remindable.Well I didn’t feel it soo much coz it was all the Kamal of that cake mix :D which few days before Ammi bought it for Ramadan I just put eggs n oil in that n that’s all,.Khair kabhi kabhi karnay main koi harj to nahi hai na …..blushing.

MY MIDz———> In Todays notice board my confirmed Mids dates with its schedule has finally get displayed which are starting from Nov 5th n end till 11th which are more early about 3 days from the previous mentioned dates :) so that’s y now I’ve fully accelerated my preparation .The paper came in Mids is of 25 marks…40 marks for yr class participation[n with some teacher it can be secureable with skilled buttering;)] & rest 55 for the finals that is how all my uni’s planned ghatya style of marks distribution …bilieve me its really worst coz I know how much it comes as a hectic for u when u really wants to secure marks really its not the way to give 40 marks in the hands of teacher the rest student do is nothing.Really I m much much worry from that Accounting side ,the most terrible cource came out for me warna in 1rst semester in Accounts-I I got B+ which was not at all a bad deal coz previously I didn’t studied this subject before coz I came from complete pre-engineering background.Aur to Aur my teacher Miss Sara is SubhanAllah.Arayyyyy u know what? from last few days one reumor is revolving around us which came into hearing from some senior groups that in this semester Miss Sara is re-appointed in our uni bcoz in last two semesters she taught 3 different cources to different batchs n the result she proposed at the end of semester is all fail n very few has passed with C or Veryyyyyyyyyyyyyyy Few with C+ yess no B,B+ or A….hhhhhh & after all such repeatations of bad result, our uni directly took an action on teacher But few rejects this reumor n said that miss herself left the Uni bcoz some of her personal reasons…ab pata nahi what is wrong n what is right Allah janay & nobody has such himmat n hosala k jaa kar khud Miss hi say pooch lain:D.But one thing that increases my curiosity that Yesterday I met with Muneeba My Veryyyy Best friend n 1 semester senior whom I meet with very rare coz of our clashing class timings who told me that miss taught them Micro-Economics in last semester n the result she gave was same as I mentioned above so Uni called her immidiatly on serios notice…..ohhhhhh ….yani Miss Sara is really dangerous….nahiiiiiiiiiiii.Many students from our batch have already droped this cource for Summers becoz of this ever increasing popularity about Miss Sara in failing students:). Those who left wrote a complaint filled application to Head of Dept(HOD) that we are not satisfied with our Accounts teacher coz she is not according to this subject requirment n blah blah blah at the end of which all did their signature that was seeming like so huge list but really I didn’t do this including some other achay bachay:)[But very few:(] coz really it seems like a bad-tameezi[so that’s y we all r expecting V.tough paper this time as an anger-filled attack from her side]. I admitt that miss sometimes really become so much harsh from her subjects side like example leasing like wide topic in just 2 days she covered & gave us an exteremly high class project that to go in leasing companies n conduct their SWOT ANALYSIS about their leasing methods ….ahhhhh that project story is another major issue which may be will in another post coz its getting longer n I still don’t get its ratings which may will get in coming week’s end .Oh one more Bomb Blast that miss did in last class that after Mid their she will assign another project thesis works n we all were like half dead……but kia kar saktay hain:D.YES!!! Accounts say yaad aaya my first paper is of accounts so now a days accounts account & accounts then after 2 days gaps of marketing yeah that’s really a great news coz anyhow marketing is V.interesting but most lenthy one n luckily I got 2 gaps , one of them is Sunday & other one is becoz the paper will be of Macro-Economics which I’ve already took in Summers…Hurray, another bomb that has been recently blasted by sir Baber Wahab(our marketing’s teacher) that case study is coming in mid which he still didn’t told us in class n this Mtkg’s case study is really so new for us n takes tooo long coz in 1rst semester I went through but it was of Mgnt’s….now almost near to faint, then C++ Programing n finally then on Thursday will be of Statistics both are pretty easy ones.Oh I think there is toooo much time has passed in b/w me & Accounts so I m now going again to shake my head inside it….eeeeeeehhhhhhh.
Allah Hafiz

PS:–Asma !!! I will send u all those recipes via mail but just let this weekend come :) .Sahi hai na:)? This week I’ve tried Iranian Cutlus from those recipes ,,,ahhh they were yummy.. :)

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Ramadan Is Here….Mabrook

October 18, 2004 at 9:45 am · Filed under Old Blogger Life

Well first of all I would like to say nothing except this.
HAPPY RAMADAN TO U ALL>>>>>>MAY ALL YOUR DREAMS COMES TRUE FROM THE BLESSING OF THIS HOLY MONTH ‘RAMADAN’.>>>>>HOPE U HAVE A LOVELY RAMADAN THIS YEAR N AHEAD.

I know I m late but actually many things came in my way whenever I was planning with to write this post.Like my ISP was not working properly from last 2 nights.Night before first Fast I was very buzy in making some new stuff for iftiyari which I had to freez before Ramadan, which me n my frend has learned from one day Cooking Mania[ a special class for Ramadan ] in which v’ve learned so many dilicious stuff that u can say new version of old stuff like samosas,role,paties,sandwiches etc the total dishes are about 7 and all r in new style n more good , & yeahhh every dish has its own n individual ketch-up to eat with.Because in this month I do cooking with full of avid n enthusiaism n because of my this involvment it has been becoming good,better,best from very bad.I don’t know why I really enjoy cooking in Ramadan specially.This is the first time that Abbu is also not us in Ramadan n Bhai is also missing so me n Ammi were really feeling dejection k ‘haee koi bhi to nahi hai ab khanay peenay main kia maza ayay ga’ But Allhumdullillah Friday’s night Raheel bhai[my bro who is elder then me] came on Monday.Usually me n Ammi divide iftiyari in 2 parts, Boiling n Frying.Sometimes Ammi do Frying n I do Boiling but I really enjoying this frying part.On both sehries I really missed my eldest brother coz he irritated us too much in order to get awaken, he just got up in last few mins n then try to push all stuff inside in hurry as becoz very less time was remaind in Fajar Aazan.Now this I missed him sooo much ‘k agar who hotay to un ko uthanay main kitna force lagani parhti’coz this task only me n Abbu did usualy.After 1rst Fast we called bhai ,he said that now he has became punctual becoz life here is far different then Pakistan n Specially Ramadan in Europe is not like our Ramadan.So I thought that really nobody forcedly teach nothing to anybody untill n unless he,himself n his surroundings help him to get punctual.Well Missing Bhai sooooo much with the depth of my heart.

Routine has became very fast But really I don’t even think that I m getting tired n every thing which I used to do in Ramadan has too much Fatigue becoz really what the mental n physical peace every year I feel in this month couldnt ever feel before.Because the Devil is now in under prison rather on our heads for whole 24 hrs.On Friday we frends were siting in uni’s lobby n just joking with each other ‘k yaar kal say tum uni nahi aao gi na kion kay shaitan ko to Allah qaid kar lain gay pooray aik month k liay,,,ch ch ch how sad ,,,,,lakin chalo acha hai thora sakooon ho jayay ga zindagi main’ .

One additional thing came in my life in this year’s Ramadan from which I m really very very very HAPPY.That on Friday when I came back from university so Ammi told me that there is an invitation came from our neighbours that this time they are arranging TARAVEES for women in their home well that neighbour isnt exactly the neighbour but just from a gap of 4 or 5 houses & I really felt great after heraing this news & on first day I was very curios to go n decided at the very moment that I will go their regularly any how. On first day when I went their with Ammi so what a Islamic enviroment among many good women I found there really that is sooo peacfull n profound.Many girls come up with their mothers n elder sisters of every age who are from the same residential area & we all offer Isha Prayer plus Taravee unitedly in ques that seems soo good.There is hall type verticle room or u can say drawing room but a huge one, with capacity of many ppl.First day we all used to stand randomly but on 2nd day all mothers stand ahead n we girls stand at back and a loud speaker has fixed in room from which we get clear voice of Maulana Sahib becoz a lil away from that house also an arragment of men Taravee in a near by ground present So from their the same Maulana Sahib guied that men’s Jamat n our Jamat simultaneously.On first day I forgot to bring that card of mine on which Tasbeeeh-e-Taravee[Dua which must have to read after 4 Taravees] is mentioned so there was a girl besides me was siting who shared his card with me later on she told me that she came from lil far but from the same locality and she is last year of her electrical engineering n now she has become my good frend there, we daily used to stand with each other .She is really so good .One more excellent thing I saw which are the girls of even 8 to 13 years old also do offer prayer under the guidance of their mothers or anybody elder with equal enthusiaism then I really feel how good n great it is just to start teach good n affectionate things to them right from the beginging n the heads of these girls are equally covered from Hijaab that seems soo beautifull like Noorani chehra. Really I feel great mental n phsyical relaxation over there.Ya Allah but I m worry also coz my Mid-semester examination are expected in last days of Ramadan which will end till before 1rst day of Eid Aay .Allah! Plzz wont break my this sequence of Taravees just becoz of my Exams or from any other reason.I really hate examination which held in between Ramadan these all vanish the charm of this holy Ramadan.

I WISH AGAIN !!! MAY U ALLL HAVE A LOVELY N GREAT RAMADAN THIS YEAR & AHAED..

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An Abstract Day in University……..

October 14, 2004 at 8:42 am · Filed under Old Blogger Life

Assalam O Alaikum…

YESTERDAY!!! my day in uni was bit far from normal routine days or u can say quiet eventious ;) .

An Embarassing Moment:——> Last week Miss Sara(our Accounts teacher) gave us an assignment that requires huge research work that was ABOUT: Types of BONDS which beyound our listenings less practicable in orginizations[as v've already started the topic of BONDS(another majore recovery of this course) after finishing LEASING].She also said at that time , that she would also take a veryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy concise presesntation of that research work in the class before submission[well i didnt know that how much concise she really wanted that presentation].On that Day she came in class n took lecture for half an hour & in the remaining half hour she asked that who got the BEST PRESENTATOR AWARD from this batch in last semester [ U know what? its was me ] i said a bit loudly in the whole class that MISS’ I GOT[in a bit proud style:D].Miss replied
Ok Gul! then plzz come with yr group members n one of u had to present yr research so i think u should do this,,,,i was like OK becoz all grp memberz had already said that k GUL u would have to present that.So me n my 2 grp memebers marched upto the stage they were standing at my back n i was ahead n standing behind the pordium JUST started began in my particular enthusiastic style there were just 20 minuts left in the over of that class.Actually Miss had already acknowledged us that it must be concise but she didnt said that how much n didnt conveyed any idea & usually presesntations r of 20 mins for ecah grp n we all were also very surprised that in just 20 mins how could all class grps diliver their research of 1 week approx & she also disclosed that today we had to wind up this dilievery session of research any how ahead there is not at all any presentation left.One thing that i forgot to mentioned is that i had a rough draft of that research on which i had highlighted that points which i had to present,but at that time i just had a fair draft while presenting which i had to hand over to miss after presentation.So after my start i really got confused because i all had mixed up those points which i had highlighted in my rough draft,so i start first read out then in mid i gave some of my own ideas which were very necessary to convey.Then some other material work which was also very necessary to say,so i think it was all took about 17 mins.After its end miss said k Gull u’ve extended it soo much i was like full confused,Furthur she said that there will no more presentation she observe in next class.Because in next class i will take view of project work.I was like crying face came back to my seat n besides me Waqas was siting so i asked that did i really bored u all?He replied with a light smile that u were delivering like U’ve to really sell the product[means nobody is in waiting].Ahhhhh then i was completely became suffered,Because it was first time critics of miss on me on the same Day v had our very first seminar which was also not went as good as it had to be just becoz of my exteremly suffering mind:(,which was also orginized by Miss Sara[its details,u will find below].she left class after saying that on mentioned time we all had to reach at Auditorium n in next class there will be no presentation she observe regarding Yesterdays lecture[coz i've already wasted all of her time] .I was like crying face after that class But Allhumdullillah when all came to say thanx to me becoz some of them were not prepard n some doesnt desire to present but still i was feeling that did really BAD.Then for an instant i really felt that proudness is HELL
OUR FIRST SEMINAR:——-> Well on the same day we had our Very first Seminar On the Topic Of “Accounting n Finance in Today” which i already said was arranged by Miss Sara & the guest speaker was Mr. Asim Muneer from ICI PAKISTAN PVT Ltd. looking about a nice 30 yrs old man a Charterd Accountant n a Gold Medalist n many more in his credit which i couldnt listen becoz at the same time my one frend was continiously whispering into my ears[that was her usuall blah blah blah].first i would like to tell u that i was not very excited as i had to be[as it was first seminar] becoz i dont have interest in Finance & its surrounding areas….yuck . I Really hate Finance…interest rates,,,,,,,stock market,,,,,,,,,,commercial institutions,,,,shares,,,,dividends etc and more above are extensively boring studies really suck my blood at exteremes[thats y Miss Sara's class is the Most boring one for me & i couldnt enjoy my whole day on which i have single class of her] .Now a days i m working on two major projects assigned by her that involves too much work related to Finance,so u can estimate my condition from which i m suffering now a days:([really this week was too much heavy on me later details u will find in someother post coz i will only post all such after getting my rank for that project which really annoyed me too much] .I LOVE marketing at exterems its really far different from finance BUT our marketing’s teacher! All call them sleeping pill….Ya Allah,,,just becoz of his Slow style of teaching which is far beyond this subject’s nature n its capacity BUT its not much serious headache for me coz of too much interest in marketing.But still i thought that Finance is a major part of my studies so i’ve to take this Seminar seriously and also our attendence is necessary otherwise pay Rs.500 fine :D [Its uni's rule]& yes it was just an informative Seminar not for exams….shukar.BUT really this time i was serious n planned to put myself into it.Well!!! what i was saying yeah THE SEMINAR!!!! yesss well we all reached at our uni’s auditorium on the reported time its was just for us BBA 2nd semister students plus BS(Economics)5th semister which were not much in strength.The Seminar starts 15 mins late then the mentioned time becoz guest speaker was charging his lap-top:D on which he had made approx 35 power point slides yesss now u can estimate the rest duration which was become unbearable at the end:S.After v all have seated then i start feeling too much chill becoz now-a-days i m under the influence of FLU n at that time my seat was very near to Air-Condition like its all Air was first directly hiting me n then go ahead after that there were only me n my endless sneezes,,,,aatishoooo,,,,Allhumdullillah[wohi hua jiss ka mujhay dar tha] which had really annoyed me tooo much through-out the seminar.Right after 15 mins guest speaker came on stage with Miss Sara, she introduce him infront of us n went back n get seated at bit back[as there were also some sitting arrangement on the stage].Now the guest speaker started with lots of smilies :D yes the main thing on his face was his endless smile:D which was showing him a bit humorous.His Start was good but u can say not that spectacular which should necessary to speak in that crowd Like the way in which Sir Javaid used to speak,,,Miss Sadaf used to speak,,,n many more reallly efficient way of dilivery that really force ppl to get more n more invlove into the topic about which communication is.Same happened that half an hour passed really nobody was listening all were like dumb n empty faces,some were yawning,some were waiting to get release from there,,,it was really informative coz i was listening:) but really after 1 hr that guest speaker also was feeling that he was creating boredom for us.Actually this seminar was not planned for exams so that was also the main reason of our roughness.After 1.5 hr My one frend besides whispers that”Gul!!! plz wake me when it ends coz now i m going to sleep “i replied “do it as quickly as possible” because both of my frends were siting at my both sides were continiously annoying me aur ooper say yeh uninvited FLU,,,,eeeeee,,,,, coz i wanted to put my all intensions.Its duration was about 4 hours n in the last it was really became too much, while speaking the speaker also said at one place that i know that y u ppl are not seems more excited because all think that Finance is a boring field with boring applications:).When last 1 hr left the idea came in my mind that i should have to collect my all my memories related to my educational career either they r boring or interesting then i thought what the hell my mobile is doing in my bag then i bring it out n took some pics BUT at the end i could not taken that pic when Miss Sara invited Sir Javaid n Miss Faiza[both faculty members who joined us 1 hr before] were giving him the honour shield[the honour title that our uni gives to guest speakers]i was like watching them but eventually when it passed over then it came in my ever late mind that i shouldn’t miss this thing to capture in pic.Oh one more thing that i forgot to mention after that long last speech dilivery Miss Sara picked up the mike n said do u ppl want to ask any question? plz go ahead!she herself initialize this questioning from one question n then proceed towards us,first i was in fear that should i ask or not?becoz sneezes were attacking on me with the gap of few mins so i thought,if it came while question?……awwww so it would not seeem good!!!Phir bhi i did himmat n asked for mike first n then asked Allhumdullillah without any sneez:) he wellcomed that question gave answer very particularly.Then some other ones also asked who were listening but they are few.One guy of our class named Omar asked a silly question that Sir!I think v all are wasting our time here what do u think about it?n some disgusting frends of him did clap after this question it was looking really ODD but thanx to that speaker who didnt turned out BUT give a proper answer to this question without doing any disgrace of that person.At the end we all rushed when we came outside our seniors who were also with us said that last time they had attended another Seminar on the Topic of “Islamic Banking system & its implementation” that really didnt turned out boring n time consuming like this ,the guest speaker was good as well.I think the main reason was that one that this topic is limited which unites many ppl’s attention at the same time.u know what my this estimate came out Very correct as well,becoz in todays class Miss Sara came in class n said that i know u all ppl got really bore in the end actually this was my mistake coz i gave him very broad topic that has less attraction n that has became mixture at the end because the topic was no doubt excellent n toooo much informative but it includes many sub topics that could consider as major topic so in the end everything has got mixed n we all were moving our heads in affirmation.But next she said she will select some limited topic after hearing this we were like WHAT?ONCE MORE!!!!!! Noooooooo:D.I dont know why Marketing’s teacher is not such active that atleast arrange any Seminar on any of the good topic.Actually this course is the most boring one n already many students have droped in the beginning of this semister for the next summer session coz Miss Sara is famous for failing students :D ab khair mujhay apnay baray main itni bureee Umeed bhi nahi:D

Next Week plzz pray for me coz really an outcome of our 1 months struggle is going to come which involves so much struggle as well so much tears of mine which i would like to share all but after getting my rank:D.Coz from 1 month me n my grp members were involve in one thesis report[project] that has created sooo much problems for us while we were working on it.
Alla Hafiz

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My So Called Eid’s Shopping….Ughhhhhhh!

October 10, 2004 at 6:51 am · Filed under Old Blogger Life

Assalam O Alaikum..

Well all i m going to write is about story of Wednesday…ughhhhh(or u can say my so called holiday).Actually on Wednesday,here was a match going to be played b/w teams of Pakistan V/S Srilanka in National Stadium which is very near to our university so that area including all its minor sharing areas were jam-packed by police security,even not any civilian was allowed to passed that area, that really caused for big unconvieniance for those whoes offices are in between the way …BUT ….for us it was really a goood news that we’ve a holiday.The management has declared that the uni would remain on-going your attendence is optional.WHO WANTS TO COME?…NOBODY!!!!.Well,It was the most happiest news for me just becoz i didnt have neither any assignment nor any quizes’s tension BUT just a lil bit worry about my account’s recent project about which i have to manage it alot{to put up in a hard form}becoz its submitting date is V near n thats all i’ve to do so thats why i planned to take a complete benefit of this holiday like i planned to finish all about this projects stuff on tuesday’s night n on WEDNESDAY i planned for nothing just to sleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep ALOT!yeah for whole day, becoz from the last 4 nights i was badly involved for the same project’s documentation n had a terrific headache just becoz of that.BUT! What v ppl plan come to reality very rare….sigh!:(.

LAST night i couldnt complete that targeted work regarding my project just becoz my condition was became miserable becoz of excessive working over n above that horrible FLU jumed on me….Ughhhhhh!!!.On Wednesday’s morning at sharp 10:30 Ammi was standing at my side when i was sleeping, to forced me to get up as early as possible n was odering me that today By chance i’ve got a golden chance so i’ve to take a full advantage of it n go for Eid’s shopping with her n must have to complete it before Ramzan,as every year me n Ammi do all our time consuming shopping before Ramzan becoz while Ramzan we avoid to go for shopping because during shopping our atleast one time’s prayer becomes QAZA n after TARAVEE there is no charm left in it after tiring day’s routine+fasting.I said unwillingly YES,becoz Ammi had ordered it strictly to me as there is v less time left in Ramzan.My all breaths were on needle from that project’s side(which had remained undone last night),,,,PROJECTSSSSSSSSSSS,,,,,can easily take my life, REALLY!untill n unless i do submitt them.So,I agreed if it could only possible in just 3 hrs[I know it couldnt:(].We left home after offering Zohar prayer.SHOPPING!really’ve turned out interesting for me BUT I’ve! turned out more MOODY for it:D.NOW! this time i guess i came out for shopping after a very long time(i guess before the start of my uni….yeahhhh) my all summer shopping was done by Ammi.Ummmmm,,,ahan,,,,i remembered when Amber Aapee(my cozin) came from USA for her wedding’s shopping in the end of April , then once i went with her just for time pass becoz it was complete Bridal shopping far from my side:D.As,i already disclosed that i was not in mood so all stuff in the market had no attraction for me:(.

WHILE SHOPPING:——–> I was like empty n dumb face walking in the market n trying to sort out things n was searching something new….I dont know y i was taking shopping first time as a very boaring activity that i think my all taste buds has died.Ammi did her all shopping in just around 45 mins n during that was getting angery on me that to put myself involve in it.After 1 complete hr Ammi with almost frawny face:(…eeeeee.Then i tried to visualized what should i really buy as an Eid dress,,,My mind first attacked on color (as i like all Dark n Bright colors) a girl just passed by me wearing MAJINDA[ahhhhh....what a luvly n kool color it was], i once saw this one, my teacher wore it one of her lectures that couldnt comes out really a lecture for me just becoz of that MAJINDA :D :D .From that moment i started searching for that luvly MAJINDA,,,,,,BUT again i wud like to say the same thing that ‘ what v’ve planned comes to reality very rare….uhhh’.All that Majindas i found later on were of veryyyy cheap n fancy fabric(not according to my taste…ughhhh[another headache:S]).At one shop i really crossed the limit of my fussyness that not only Ammi balkay that shop-keeper really seemed soo exaushted…eeeeeee(iss main mairi to koi ghalteee nahi:(),at his 35th dress i did rejected it in same way then he said in his Pushtooo axent”bibi tumhara to nakra hi khatam nahi hota hai”, i was just…..uhhhh[wanted to say but couldnt],,,,”Lala aap k paas kuch hai hi nahi jo lia jayay”[Gul!ssshhhhh(my inside voice)]then i suddenly came out from that shop without buying anything :( .Then after more then 30 minuts i said clearly to Ammi really i couldnt buy any thing RIGHT NOW!.

WHILE SHOPPING[ A Pleasant meeting ]:——–> I dont know what a big ittefaq always happens with me that whenever i went for shopping in that mall i met with somebody known.While we were standing on one shop n sort out some stuff suddenly i saw a woman was staring at me with a light smile,,,I suddenly turned my face on the other side n started thinking that, who is she?.Then i again turned my face with my full intensionnnss,,,,ummmmm,,,,,,,,Oh God!!!!!,,,she was Miss Aaliya[taught us Urdu's poetry part in college times]really an unforgetable teacher for me & i think I, an unfogetable student for her:D becoz of my too much interest in poetry.Really cant forget the way of her teaching specially in the days when she was teaching us Ghalib n Dard’s Ghazals ,at some times while doing Tashreeh[translation] she really becomes sooo much involved,,,ahhhhh,,,really so profound Tashreeh she gave to us in her particular Taqreeeri Andaaz.That was really a pleasant instant meeting with her.In which,She asked me so many things that”what I m doing now a days & what about other students”.She really had became so delighted after hearing that i m doing my graduation in managment sciences & i also convey same sort of info about those whom about i know.At a moment she looked me from top to bottom n said “hmmmmm…Tum to Bari ho gae ho.”[u've became more mature],I was like in fulll confusion [actually these kind of statements made me sooo confused that i've really became at that moment].I just passed my confusing smile against this observation to her.Then i insidely thought k “miss its not my fault that u ‘ve been always saw me in that babyish college uniform:with Navy blue tunic,white shalvaar,dupatta n shirt[under that tunic] & yeah last but not least that Tie on our coulors yessss Tieeeee….:can easily made a babyish image of any mature girl.Khair! it was really a wounderfull meeting with one of my fav teacher in that boaring Bazaar.

WHILE SHOPPING[ An Incident ]:——->I think whenever i m not in mood for any task & still i m insisted for that same task,in this condition i really forget the correct usage of my eyes,,,Ughhhh,,, that sometimes creates lots of problems for me.BUT ppl! bilieve me i m completely blameless actually there is someone else behind the event present and all come on my shoulders….merci!.Haan to! on that day that mall was over crowded as because of eid days.Women were walking like every thing is offering free in the market.Uptill when this window shopping becomes a great time pass hobby of many women it has became a trend that walk in the market for the sake of nothing,,,,,Ya Allah.Ammi also was intructing with the gap of few mins that for GOD sake walk straightly USE your Eyes .I was like annoyingly ….OK.Suddenly an aunty has cuted my way n indulge herself badly that my foot was laid on her foot as because i was walking too so i crushed it in a condition of not knowing that something is under my feet so i ‘ve to be carefull,,,,,Ya Allah,,,,,,GOD Promise i m blameless,,,,, rather that aunty of being pleased she was looking me with full of frawny expressions :( :(:( & i was like still paused staring at her that what all had happened is not really my mistake,Ammi said sorry in place of mine n pushed me ahead & i was like……DONT ASK :( .This reminds me of same kind of incident which has took place in one of our known ppl’s wedding while dinner was serving & a Mohtarma[i coulndt saw her face becoz after created that whole scene she suddenly got disappeared] slightly pushed me[look i m using SLIGHTLY PUSHED instead of word DHAKKA] n i fell down on other aunty was putting curry into her plate,,,,,,aaaaaaaa,,,NOW i think No Need for further discription is left becoz all u ppl are smart can easily get that.At that moment i tried alot with that aunty that really what had happened not becoz of me but nobody was witness there n the real victim had already escaped.But that aunty didnt turned out so much dangerous[Allhumdullillah :D ] n one more thanx that Ammi didnt saw me while all that happened…;).Ahhhhh!!! but my all sympethies are with that aunty’s Dress how much luvly n beautiful it was before n how ugly i made it after.NOW my life is really filled with such kind of accidents:D.My Mom usually advised me that “baita! blind ppl have more common sense then u” & i m like whisper with myself that”Ammi! common sense is the sense which is not Very common:D” but really what can i do?i dont feel shyness after all such things becoz really someone else behind it present,,,,Bilieve Me……I M INNOCENT.

khair! i came back without buying anything,,,,uhhh but still worry about my Eid dress coz really this one ocassion i have a charm for it:).Otherwise Shopping is not really a good involoving activity for me.InshaALLAH we frends are planning for shopping before Ramzan let c what will happen.NOW this time GUL plzzz be carefull……
Allah Hafiz

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Volunteerism in Islam

October 7, 2004 at 9:13 pm · Filed under Old Blogger Life

Few Days before i’ve got a chance to attend the presentation of one of our senior’s group.They were presenting on the Topic “Moderenization Doesnt means Westernization”.In that presentation they mostly highlighted the volunteerism concept in Islam,That usually take differntly by differnt ppl.Some think that it should not exist n some think that its existance is necessary for the survival of islam in this moderen world.After that presentation i’ve got an article from one of my friend of that group regarding Volunteerism Concept, which is as follows.
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By Dr Ahmad Hussein Sakr http://www.youngmuslims.ca/
Volunteering is the lifeblood of any community. It is because of volunteers that communities are able to run organizations, social services, conferences, playgroups, drop-in centers, feed the hungry, shelter the homeless, open libraries, run schools, set up blood banks, and the list goes on. Paid employees only make up a small part of the social services network; without volunteers such endeavors would come to a standstill.


As Muslims, our role isn’t just to make our salat and fast and pay zakat. We are encouraged to take on a broader role by working to improve the communities we live in; we should be visiting the sick, feeding the hungry, teaching people to read, helping people who have no one to turn to. It is by translating our love of Allah into good actions that we strengthen our imaan. Islam is a faith of action and we need to demonstrate our faith by working to make the world a better place.


In Islam there is a strong ethic of volunteerism. This does not simply extend to running study circles or fundraising for the masjid. As Muslims, we see our role as world citizens. The idea of working for a better society or community shouldn’t be limited to the Muslim community but should extend to the broader non-Muslim community as well. Because we live in that community too, whatever weaknesses are present affect us also.

Dawah, the idea of inviting others to Islam, takes on myriad forms. The obvious one is educating people specifically about Islam and the principles enshrined therein. But the less obvious form is through doing good works and setting an example. This is where volunteerism plays a role.

As a community, Muslims need to cultivate a culture of volunteerism. There is a persistent notion that volunteers are essentially free labour. Their efforts are not appreciated and, indeed, are often criticized. We need to shift our perception and see that it is because of volunteers that so many of the services we need are available. Entire mosques have been built through the efforts of volunteers, conferences are run by volunteers, Eid prayers are organized by volunteers, schools are run, in large part, by volunteers, Muslim newspapers and magazines are written for and published by volunteers, and so on.

It is also important to note that volunteering should be a priority. Typically, Muslims see volunteering as something that should be done when you have nothing else to do. This should not be the case. If people generally see volunteering as something secondary and less important, the quality of the effort is greatly diminished. Volunteering must be at least as important as other pursuits.

Volunteering should be done by professionals. This is not to say that unless you have a graduate degree in mathematics, you shouldn’t help with an after-school tutoring program. Rather, if you have that graduate degree or are a teacher, you should be the one who should take the initiative in starting the tutoring program. Your skills will be invaluable to that program. If all the math tutors are people who have weak math skills, the effort will be a waste of everyone’s time and resources. Not to mention the students who will continue to fail their math tests.

It is exceedingly important to avoid volunteer burnout. In every community there are a core group of volunteers and the Muslim community is no different. We all know the one Muslim brother or sister who helps out at all the events and is always working at breakneck speed. This is not fair. It is of no help to leave all the work to a few frazzled people while the rest sit back and enjoy the fruits of their labour. The core group eventually burns out. They have other obligations — family, work, social activities. When they are worn out and drop out, the whole community feels their absence.

Volunteering has many benefits. Because of people’s willingness to work for free, many services can be offered at a lower cost or even for free; there is far more flexibility in the delivery of services since more people are available to help; volunteering gives individuals a broader sense of community; and people also feel a greater connection to one another when they are involved in volunteer activities.

There are also personal benefits for the volunteer. We understand that our primary motivation for helping others should be our love for Allah but that doesn’t mean we can’t benefit from our volunteer activities. Many volunteers have learned invaluable skills and have made personal contacts that have helped them in securing employment later on. Also, for students, volunteering is an excellent way to build up a resume and gain a wide range of experience that can certainly help when it comes time to apply to college and university.

There are also some important rules to remember when volunteering:

No volunteer is to brag about giving his time, effort, energy, knowledge and memory when he is doing it fee sabeelillah (in the way of Allah).

No volunteer should accuse the employees that they are receiving money from the general budget of the community, while he is doing it for free.

No volunteer should accept a job or a title for the sake of show, or else it will become hypocrisy.

No volunteer should accept a title or a job when he knows that he is not qualified for the job.

No volunteer should accept a title, while knowing that he has no time to volunteer for such a job.

(Volunteerism in Islam by Dr Ahmad Hussein Sakr)

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The Day has came ,,,,BUT,,,I m not Happy !!!

October 5, 2004 at 1:57 am · Filed under Old Blogger Life

Salam 2 All !!!

Finally, Today is the day came on which i can sing this song >>>Happy Birth Day To ME>>>>> May me have many more(InshaAllah):)Yeah, today i’ve became of 19(another increament:D) Allhumdullillah.Yesss,before 19 years ago on 5th of oct 1985 i had just opend my eyes on this earth for the very first time:).

The day started very brightly Allhumdullillah from plenty of blessings n prayers by Ammi n Bari Ammi(My grandmother) which i call fuel for this next coming year not only this balkay for the many more years waiting ahead(InshaAllah).The rest part i’ve spent in uni that was excellent as well recieved alot of greetings from frends n teachers & tonight at sharp 12:00 got very pleasant surprise wishes from very old frends of mine from college.Abbu also called at night to greet me,,,,Thats all was sooo goood Allhumdullillah n Very pleasant BUTTTTTTTTTTTTT I m not Happyy:(:( Simply becoz BHAI Jaan (my eldest brother) is not with me this year like every n uptill now not any greeting i recieved from his side i know thats not a major reason he will deffinatly call me tonight BUTTTTTT the distrubing reason is his absence:(:(.He is again buzy in another test of FRCPS in Uk after PLAB (MAY ALLAH SUCCEED HIM again inshaALLAH,,,,& U Will Sooon Become a great Physician ,,,,Ameen).



When i was of 11 yrs he went to Russia for a year but at that time i was Ammi’s darling .Gradually when i started grown-up bhai n me get more n more close frends he never imposes on me that he is my brother.He is almost 10 years older then me n often say one thing that u r not my sister u r very precious to me like my own daughter just not becoz i m his only sister just becoz he wanted to make me really admireable for my beloved ones .He really guides me in every path of life like true responsible guadian wether that path is acedmic or moral.He is not just a good brother ,besides a good teacher,a good companion friend & an excellent guide.He never Gifted me any stupid gifts like jewllery & cosmetics on any of my previous B Day,whenever i did make-up sort of things infront of him he always burst out with scold n said MAKE YOUR SIMPLICITY,YOUR GRACE MY DEAR SISTER,,,ahhh bhai u were soo TRUE.He Always gifted me good n precious worthy books on my every Birth Day appropriat to that age on which i was standing n That books really r Remarkable ones n always will have been kept in my library.There is almost 1 yr has passed that bhai n me didnt meet.He often do calls but i prefer to do text-chat with him on internet rather to speak on fone becoz his voice freshs his memories more deeply n thats really an exterem intense one,Like the way he used to talk with me on fone ohhhhh,,,bhai now i really cant wait any more.



If i take a brief review of this little part of life’s journey which starts from 18 n end till 19 so i would like to say that it is the most hatred one without u my dear brother.U never know how much i really miss u when i feel soo much lonlyness.i really hate this little part of my life’s journey,,,,,if it could be deducted then my life is really a calm n kool because uptill when on every stage i had support of u.U never imposes on my that i m 10 years younger then u then y other ppl imposed becoz they r really not like u n they can never b like u n even they can never be just moderate ones becoz they r worst.There are so many good n signicant things came in my life during this year like i started my professinal education n sooo many other good ones Allhumdullillah.BUT really i dont like this part of life n i m also not succeeded to find what the philosofical n cyclogical reason is behind it…..?
Allah Hafiz

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